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Post by aurora10 on Oct 16, 2005 19:22:50 GMT -5
British, latikono? Yessss! lol j/k My friend used to go out with this 27 year old but this was when she was like 16. I didn't really like that but since you're almost 18 and he's 25, I say go for it! From what I read, you're ready for a relationship with him!  Don't you guys hate and love charming guys? Ugh, I fall for them all of the time. |
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Post by blue-eyed struck on Oct 16, 2005 19:37:09 GMT -5
Needless to say, it's been 4 years now that we've been married (8 years together) and I couldn't be happier. How can I not love a man that's got a book of poetry written for me in two languages? I lived in his country for 2 years before we could come back to Canada and it was a huge eye opening experience (about how lucky I am to be in this country) and a blast. Oh, and my family absolutely loves him and we're planning a renewal of our vows so my ma can get to see my wedding (not quite the same - we were married in an Armenian monastary - wore crowns on our head, cut the cake with a sword, the whole church decorated in gold and plush red velvet and only about 50 people there - the pictures and video were great though). Wow Ciaran!! That just sounds like a page out of a novel! You should write a book about your life! I have to say though, your story is one in a million. I'm glad everything worked out! I hope I can find that special someone someday too. I'm starting to think he's in a different world, but I'm not losing hope! |
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Post by Shelly on Oct 16, 2005 22:19:40 GMT -5
so my boyfriend, the one i mentioned on the earlier page. I want to break up with him. I jsut don't know how. I like him and all. just not like that. hes too... non-out oging for me. (im loud and well... outrageous and outgoing. haha) but hes really sweet. I would feel absolutly horrible to break up with him for no good reason. But I don't like him anymore and it would take forever if i stayed in the relationship long enough for him to mess up or do something. and i don't beleive in like, leading people on and letting them think you like them. and cheating is a nooo nooo. we just don't even act like boyfriend and girlfriend. but i don't feel like a girlfriend. and gah. hmm... any thoughts/ advie?
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Yoshomika
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Post by Yoshomika on Oct 17, 2005 7:34:21 GMT -5
Don't you guys hate and love charming guys? Ugh, I fall for them all of the time. *sigh* Amen babe... Amen. Personally I don't believe in monogamy, but I practice it to keep my boyfriend happy. I told Evy-chan how I felt and things just went horribly wrong. He's upset, which makes me upset, which makes my friends worry... Ugh it's an on going cycle of stupidness. I hate it when my friends worry about me. I'm fine, I tell them I'll be fine and they don't believe me. The truth is, I'll never be fine. Everytime I "fall in love" with someone, some other wonderful person comes along. I hate it. I hate having the thoughts I do... I've said too much. Have a nice day everyone. -Yosho-chan |
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Post by ciaran on Oct 17, 2005 8:27:58 GMT -5
Wow Ciaran!! That just sounds like a page out of a novel! You should write a book about your life! I have to say though, your story is one in a million. I'm glad everything worked out! I hope I can find that special someone someday too. I'm starting to think he's in a different world, but I'm not losing hope! That's funny, you have no idea how many times someone has told me I should write a book or they should make a movie about it. Nah, it's too special to put on display, it's only for those around me that are as special. Definitely don't give up hope - you'll find someone when you least expect it. Don't expect prince charming as some people make the mistake of doing though(depending on what your view of prince charming might be that is). I say that my husband is my prince charming, but you know we also have bad days too, as I think all relationships & friendships do. I wish more people could realize this as I find they tend to have a bad day and then just give up and move on. They have no idea what they're missing out on. Shelly, I'm not that great at advice, but if you really don't feel that way about him, why don't you try telling him you want to just be friends? I know it's the dreaded thing for guys to hear a girl just wants to be friends, but if you find yourself thinking you'd rather be with someone else and it's not something you think you can get over, then you're absolutely right to want to break it off. Nice to hear that someone else has my same views on cheating. Another thing that we need more of these days, loyalty. |
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Post by poegrl on Oct 17, 2005 12:40:31 GMT -5
dear loard you all of you wipper snappers make me feel like and an old bitty.
An then again I see alof of me in alot of your little situations. It's funny when your a bit younger and full of dream, every little thing seems or feels like it's biggest deal in the world. It's a beautiful thing and makes me smile.
I could wirte a whole lot about where i am in my realtionship right now the fact that i don't know where i am in it, or if it will even last, and twenty million other things that piss me off or make me happy when I see my guy.
What I can write to you about though is that age really doen't matter when it comes to dating and al that sort of thing cause some people are just ment for it at that age other's aren't. though i have to admit 13 is a little young in my minds eye it's not really wrong. Just don't let yourself get too wraped up in that sort of thing and let yourself get lost along the way.
These years are some of the more intresting and life building ones in your life. Alot of changes and disscions being made patterns being set. Just make sure that your making all the choices for your sake and not someone elses. This is one of the few times in life you can be a little selfish and really indulge in what makes you, you. take advantage while you can.
Oh and if any one was really intrested about reading my life. *LOL* ya right. I do blog in myspace a bit. It's a weird little space in my head that gets posted on that thing but intresting read from time to time.
well that's my $2.15. Damned inflation...
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Post by blue on Oct 17, 2005 12:49:21 GMT -5
Hm I'm 14 and I think that 14 is too young... even though I know people that have had "boyfriends" since like 5th grade. *cough*Freaks*cough* hahah jk. BUT it is young, I mean you're 13-14. It's just a short time thing anyway. Everyone has one... except me. I'm happy that way. I'm friends with guys, it makes them MUCH more easygoing, you can do NORMAL stuff with them without worrying about what they think (Well, that and the fact that I'd prefer to go snowboarding with someone than hang out at the mall like the million other couples at my school), and you're not at the constant threat that something will separate you forever. So, the lesson is kids (Anyone under 16... otherwise do whatever you want  ), don't get toooo involved. It's not that big a deal. =Rant Over= Although I did have one in 6th grade. That's contradictory |
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Post by Shelly on Oct 17, 2005 15:54:49 GMT -5
haha
sixth grade has got to be like the lamest thing ever. going out in sixth grade means sitting at lunch together. talking to each other. maybe walking from class to class together and! THIS IS THE BIG ONE! hugging. :x hahahah. sixth grade going out.... whew!
ps. i love your signiture. like i love that movie. my favorite of his. and thaht song... yeah. so your signiutare pretty much rocks
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), don't get toooo involved. It's not that big a deal. =Rant Over=