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Post by emma286 on Aug 10, 2009 4:18:28 GMT -5
If I flunk my course I'm blaming larvalee, aimee and emma for posting all those lovely pictures. Massive distraction! lol! Come on though, you have to admit that not all was bad about it!  And I have a study tip for you! When you're working through an assignment you could always make that one of your rewards at the end of a study session! You could think of it as an inspiration!  |
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Post by Melty_Girl on Aug 10, 2009 14:01:52 GMT -5
I have to say I do think that the whole thing with him being out with Sienna has very likely been blown out of proportion. I did read that she said that she's been accused of having affairs with actors she's worked with before pretty often - and that the same happened with Cillian before she'd even started working properly with him on the set of Hippie Hippie Shake. I think the press just have a habit of making anything they can think of up at times - because they know they'll benefit from it. And also I don't think there's anything unusual for co-workers who get along well at work to sometimes socialise and go out for drinks together - without there being anything more to it than just being friends. I also don't think that it's ever a healthy thing for a couple to be constantly stuck in each others pockets - and so it really doesn't surprise me that every now and then Cillian might want to have the odd night out with friends without his wife necessarily being at his side every time. If two people are in a close trusting relationship, then there's no reason why they can't sometimes do things separately - as well as spending time together. I really do reckon that too much was made out of all that. Though at the same time, if it did happen that Sienna Miller was ever interested in him in that way - have to admit I couldn't exactly blame her! ;D I second what Emma's said here! And I'll add, in my broken-record skeptical way, that having next-to-no information about Cillian and his wife, we have no way to know anything about the status of their relationship, or whether there is anything to this Keely person. I totally understand everyone's curiosity, and I'm of course curious about him too, but I just urge everyone to be very skeptical. Consider the possibility that whoever this person is, she is giggling as she reads this thread, as she enjoys seeing other fans of Cillian in a tizzy over these Internet bread crumbs that she's dropped along what is probably a false path. Would anyone who is truly close to Cillian risk their relationship with him by talking to/hinting to fans on the web about his personal life? While it is possible, I tend to doubt it. |
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Post by Pisces on Aug 10, 2009 14:21:35 GMT -5
Sure. If said relationship has now ended or looks to her as if it might. What would she then have to lose? Nothing.
Of course, I am not convinced either way. Not ready to jump on this as being probable, but it is possible. Stranger things have certainly happened (see Jude Law).
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Post by Melty_Girl on Aug 10, 2009 15:18:29 GMT -5
Sure. If said relationship has now ended or looks to her as if it might. What would she then have to lose? Nothing. Of course, I am not convinced either way. Not ready to jump on this as being probable, but it is possible. Stranger things have certainly happened (see Jude Law). As I said above, it's possible, but I tend to doubt it. (And even if this supposed relationship has ended or looks like it might, there's still something to lose: the possibility of getting back together.) I just think it's important to remember that anyone can post anything on the Internet, and what we've seen could be the work of a stalker, a prankster, a fling from his teen years, a silly acquaintance of his sister's who barely knows him, a random fan who has never met him, or even one of us. We just don't know. We've given it a lot of weight here, but we have no way of knowing if it is anything whatsoever. Sure, we could find out tomorrow that Cillian admits doing his nanny like Jude Law did. Or maybe his nanny or some woman will go to the press and allege something that Cillian will deny. But until then, we really have no real world evidence to go on. Correct me if I'm wrong, but speculation that Cillian's marriage may be over doesn't seem to be based on any actual news beyond one night out drinking with Sienna Miller. |
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Post by emma286 on Aug 10, 2009 15:33:18 GMT -5
Yeah. Have to agree with what Melty Girl said. And even when it comes to the news, you can't believe everything you read or hear - as much of it tends to be either exaggerations or outright lies. I personally feel really sorry for celebrities who have to put up with all that, as after all they are human beings just as much as anybody else and I think deserve to be treated as such.
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Post by Pisces on Aug 10, 2009 15:45:22 GMT -5
I agree with all of that. But I will say that if Cillian was having marital problems (and allow me to be clear - I am not saying that he is), I would not judge him for it. Life is complicated, relationships even more so, and he must do as he sees fit to find happiness - whether that means a major life change for him or not. I don't think a man who experiences a divorce is evil, or any less a man, or any less deserving of admiration for his craft. This stuff happens.
Not saying it did. I'm content to stay on the fence on this issue.
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Post by Melty_Girl on Aug 10, 2009 16:26:07 GMT -5
I agree with all of that. But I will say that if Cillian was having marital problems (and allow me to be clear - I am not saying that he is), I would not judge him for it. Life is complicated, relationships even more so, and he must do as he sees fit to find happiness - whether that means a major life change for him or not. I don't think a man who experiences a divorce is evil, or any less a man, or any less deserving of admiration for his craft. This stuff happens. Well said. |
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Post by rukia888 on Aug 10, 2009 22:15:41 GMT -5
Whoa. I've been away from this site for a few days, and this pops up. At least it's causing some interest on this forum.
I think this all sounds fishy, and I won't believe a word of it until a more reliable source backs it up other than some Facebook user. If Cillian's has separated or divorced from his wife or cheating on his wife, I think we'll eventually find out legitimately. For now, I wish him the best with whatever's going on in his life.
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Post by minamurray78 on Aug 10, 2009 23:32:57 GMT -5
Y'all, I think we should stop this wild speculation. I get being curious and everything, but we're most likely to be wrong than right. What can we do anyway? I mean, other than admire those pictures and wait for his next movie to come out and put an end to this dry spell  Even if those pics are quite distracting, as stated by bestshot, by all means, keep them coming |
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Post by Kizuna on Aug 12, 2009 0:38:02 GMT -5
I agree with everyone else's sentiments on this - we should take that chick's words with a grain of salt at the very most, especially given that this is only coming from a Facebook page. Not to mention her "coy" reply ("Maybe I am, may I'm not"), which only makes this smell even fishier.
And besides, even if Cillian and Yvonne are hitting a rough patch in their marriage, it's really not our place to judge them. We don't know them personally.
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Post by emma286 on Aug 12, 2009 7:08:07 GMT -5
And besides, even if Cillian and Yvonne are hitting a rough patch in their marriage, it's really not our place to judge them. We don't know them personally. Very much agreeing. Pretty much the last of what I have to say on this though, is that I really hope that girl who posted what she did on Yahoo doesn't continue with spreading that rumour across the internet. The fact that she chose to go ahead and do something like that really is the height of disrespect in my opinion. And though I'm by no means an expert on how these types of things work - I'm wondering if there is a possibility she could get sued or something like that, if it happened that Cillian ever were to find out anything about it. At the least, I'm sure he'd be none too happy to know that a so called fan of his went spreading stories like that around about him for the public to know, I wouldn't blame him at all either. |
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Post by Seabreeze on Aug 12, 2009 8:59:56 GMT -5
Oh my, if Cillian were to find out!!!! Do you actually believe that he would even care? The industry is full of rumours. To waste time and money in court over a teenager's fantasy would make him look like a fool. As far as disrespecting someone you assume that individual is worthy of respect. Since you don't know him on what merits do you base your respect ? Because he makes a living by acting? Because you think he's handsome? If those qualities deserve respect, we are in deep trouble.
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Post by emma286 on Aug 12, 2009 9:29:04 GMT -5
Oh my, if Cillian were to find out!!!! Do you actually believe that he would even care? The industry is full of rumours. To waste time and money in court over a teenager's fantasy would make him look like a fool. As far as disrespecting someone you assume that individual is worthy of respect. Since you don't know him on what merits do you base your respect ? Because he makes a living by acting? Because you think he's handsome? If those qualities deserve respect, we are in deep trouble. Maybe you're right. Maybe he wouldn't give a flying toss! But then again he might - depending on just how far someone might be wiling to take something like that. Which, under the right kind of circumstances, could eventually lead to such a rumour raising the attention of the Paparazzi - who I'm sure are likely to be forever scouring the internet - as well as other possible info sources - for anything like that they can get their eyes and hands on. In which case the odds that such a rumour would lead to a problem for him would significantly increase. Of course I'm not claiming it would definitely come to that. Who knows whether or not it will? But then again these things are always possible. As news like that - despite however untrue and unfounded it might be - can spread fast. Besides how can you know for sure he definitely wouldn't be upset? You hardly know him any better than the rest of us.  And in any case that kind of thing can and does happen with celeb figures. Just to give an example of this, I happen to personally know a friend who is in contact with a celebrity through Twitter. Someone from the Scottish rock band Simple Minds - who are famous all over the world. And who had some so called fans start saying some really nasty stuff about him on the site. Because of the situation he put up an announcement mentioning that he is thinking about leaving the site because of it. Not something that a celebrity - or in fact anyone - would likely consider, unless on some level they were upset by it. It goes to show that celebrities can and do have feelings - just as much as any other human being out there. As for your comment about why I choose to respect Cillian - I may not know him personally. But, again, I do appreciate that he's a human being just like everyone else. And has every right to prefer that people he doesn't personally know don't nose into what's going on in his private life. Being the strong admirer I am of his work and acting talent, in addition to understanding these things, is why I have respect for him. As I'm sure anyone who is a genuine fan of his would also. |
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Post by minamurray78 on Aug 12, 2009 11:47:38 GMT -5
And though I'm by no means an expert on how these types of things work - I'm wondering if there is a possibility she could get sued or something like that, if it happened that Cillian ever were to find out anything about it. Just for a random stranger's post? I doubt it. I mean, the internet would collapse, 'cause when it comes to celebrities and the www, there's always gonna be little people spreading rumors just to be malicious, or because they're, you know, deluded. In many fandoms I've come across people like that, trolls who want nothing but to upset other fans or gain a little bit of notice. If you choose a career that puts you in the public eye, you gotta develop a tough skin, or you'll be second guessing yourself the whole time. IMO, he doesn't seem to have that problem. Probably won't care. And neither should we. many times I've read things that make me wanna hurt the screen, but I think the best way to deal with it it's just to ignore it. Also, WORD about the respect thing. It's more about respecting other human beings and giving them the benefit of the doubt rather than needing solid proof that he is worthy of my highest opinion |
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Post by emma286 on Aug 12, 2009 12:13:41 GMT -5
Just for a random stranger's post? I doubt it. I mean, the internet would collapse, 'cause when it comes to celebrities and the www, there's always gonna be little people spreading rumors just to be malicious, or because they're, you know, deluded. In many fandoms I've come across people like that, trolls who want nothing but to upset other fans or gain a little bit of notice. Wasn't strictly what I meant Minamurray, though very much appreciate what you're saying there What I was basically getting at was the possibility that if - and i'm only saying if - that person on Yahoo or someone else were to say things like that in enough places to enough people over the internet - there is a chance it could well end up in the papers at some point. And Cillian himself has (more or less) stated in interviews before that he deliberately keeps things low key when it comes to his private life because that's the kind of thing he prefers not to happen. That was what I was bearing in mind when making those last couple of posts before this one. But you do make some good and valid points. And it is of course just as possible nothing like that would happen at all. I'm just commenting that I hope it doesn't is all. Also, WORD about the respect thing. It's more about respecting other human beings and giving them the benefit of the doubt rather than needing solid proof that he is worthy of my highest opinion 100% agreeing with this. |
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And I have a study tip for you! When you're working through an assignment you could always make that one of your rewards at the end of a study session! You could think of it as an inspiration! 
And in any case that kind of thing can and does happen with celeb figures. Just to give an example of this, I happen to personally know a friend who is in contact with a celebrity through Twitter. Someone from the Scottish rock band Simple Minds - who are famous all over the world. And who had some so called fans start saying some really nasty stuff about him on the site. Because of the situation he put up an announcement mentioning that he is thinking about leaving the site because of it. Not something that a celebrity - or in fact anyone - would likely consider, unless on some level they were upset by it. It goes to show that celebrities can and do have feelings - just as much as any other human being out there.