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Post by bunnie24 on Jul 15, 2012 10:40:23 GMT -5
I know, and I'm trying to understand how my other friends can't see what i see.
and they're not saying/doing anything negative against Toby, oddly enough a war is going on on YouTube about him and some other nut; but yeah, they're just trying to, what's the word, get a rise out of me.
and that ain't happening.
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Post by thehyacinthgirl on Jul 18, 2012 14:59:15 GMT -5
Bloody Rose, you need to stop posting this kind of thing on a public forum. If you are TRULY serious about this (and I truly hope you're not), go to your local hospital, tell the people on the Emergency Department that you are suicidal and get yourself a crisis referral. Immediately. You won't wait a month (can't understand why your last referral was a month away when you were in such a crisis - they're generally immediate, even where you live) You won't even wait a week. A day. It'll be immediate. What good can we do on a forum? You don't appear to WANT help. You don't appear to want to listen to reason, advice, anything. If you truly NEED help then get it. Now. Right now. Stop posting this on a forum and go to a place where people can help. Because we can't help you here.
It's not that people don't care, it was never that people didn't care. People DO care. When someone is generally and genuinely in need then support (for what it's worth) is here. The truth is, it's that people don't know how to respond because it's a constant thing. This is NOT the place for this kind of thing. It really isn't.
If this is a cry for help, ask yourself if it would not be better served at a place where you CAN get help. Because we can't help you here. We can try to be supportive (God knows we've tried, everyone's tried, but where does it get us?) but what can we really DO?
PS is the signature pic really necessary on a public forum? I find it disturbing.
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Post by bunnie24 on Sept 7, 2012 14:12:34 GMT -5
I'm not happy because I had to get another needle stuck in my eye cause the first time didn't do anything. But it's like 10X times worse. I see these black dots, and my right eye can't help it but cry--OH, and I have this nasty blood pool from where they stuck the needle.  |
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Post by razzthekid on Sept 8, 2012 5:03:11 GMT -5
Bunnie that sounds awful. I really hope it gets better soon, i can't even imagine having needles poked in my eyes. My reason for not being happy seems very trivial now....anyway it's because the t-shirts i ordered from PETA still haven't arrived and it's been about a month and a half now! I knew it'd be slow but this is taking the piss!
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Post by bunnie24 on Sept 8, 2012 10:01:37 GMT -5
Update: I have lost vision in my right eye. I've had to get a hold of my doctor and hope for the best.
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Post by Mokey on Sept 8, 2012 14:18:19 GMT -5
Oh Bunnie I am so sorry to hear about your eye!!  That must be so awful. I can't even imagine what you are going through! I am sending hugs and love your way and hoping all gets sorted out for you soon!  Take care dear! |
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Post by razzthekid on Sept 8, 2012 17:52:18 GMT -5
Oh my god Bunnie... I'm so sorry, i really hope that you're doctor can help you. X
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Post by The Phantom Lady on Sept 9, 2012 3:05:14 GMT -5
I'm so sorry to hear about your eye Bunnie, I sincerely hope its fixable! You have way too much on your plate! *big hug*
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Post by wikkleshamrocks on Sept 9, 2012 6:23:14 GMT -5
Sorry for that Bunnie Why has this thread been unlocked? |
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Post by bunnie24 on Sept 9, 2012 10:23:22 GMT -5
Sorry for that Bunnie Why has this thread been unlocked? Yeah, that's what I was asking myself too...I just figured it was always unlocked but nobody noticed.  |
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Post by Cait on Sept 9, 2012 10:52:53 GMT -5
Bunnie, I can't imagine how scary it must be to lose vision in one of your eyes. I hope your doctor can figure out what is going on and can find a solution! *massive hugs*
@shamrocks, I'm not sure why it's been unlocked. I'm wondering if maybe we have too many threads to share our thoughts and feelings, and perhaps it would be better to have just one thread for that type of thing. What do you ladies think?
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Post by wikkleshamrocks on Sept 9, 2012 17:36:09 GMT -5
I think it's good to have a thread to support each other when we are low, we're a nice bunch in here but too many similar threads make it look like an angst forum rather than a Cillian Murphy forum and I think along with others that it is not attractive for future members and lurkers to see and can discourage them from visiting. I personally think that airing dirty laundry whether true or not, publicly, is something no body here wants to see as we know this has definitely upset many members in the past. This is why I was confused as to why this thread was unlocked when there were other newer threads taking the place of this one such as the "Good News Bad News" thing. Also posts with similar, repetitive "unhappy personal" themes bleeding into threads that have nothing to do with the subjects at hand. I also feel that we as members should also respect any actions and requests the moderators have and understand they have a very tough job trying to keep everyone happy and manage the forum the best they can without having full administration utility on here. This post by me is not pointing fingers at all by the way, just merely the general regard I have on this matter. Thanks Cait |
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Post by bunnie24 on Sept 9, 2012 19:03:28 GMT -5
I think it's good to have a thread to support each other when we are low, we're a nice bunch in here but too many similar threads make it look like an angst forum rather than a Cillian Murphy forum and I think along with others that it is not attractive for future members and lurkers to see and can discourage them from visiting. I personally think that airing dirty laundry whether true or not, publicly, is something no body here wants to see as we know this has definitely upset many members in the past. This is why I was confused as to why this thread was unlocked when there were other newer threads taking the place of this one such as the "Good News Bad News" thing. Also posts with similar, repetitive "unhappy personal" themes bleeding into threads that have nothing to do with the subjects at hand. I also feel that we as members should also respect any actions and requests the moderators have and understand they have a very tough job trying to keep everyone happy and manage the forum the best they can without having full administration utility on here. This post by me is not pointing fingers at all by the way, just merely the general regard I have on this matter. Thanks Cait *hugs* |
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Post by dulcemirita on Sept 10, 2012 4:46:17 GMT -5
It should be unfair to be here on a daily basis just for checking Cillian's news from other members while posting your own stuff, so it seems logical to have a thread for those "bad moments" when all you need is just a virtual hug. So, I hug virtually to those who are having personal issues of no specific gender (family,friends, health..) Not everything is happiness and welfare, a friend in need is a friend indeed!!!
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Post by The Phantom Lady on Sept 14, 2012 15:36:53 GMT -5
I thought I'd feel worse about this, but I am glad I'm just a bit low over it...
I really needed to shake a leg, I mean go clubbing... out of my friends only one actually goes clubbing and I wanted to ask her to go with me this weekend but since my text wasn't about all of her boy troubles she didn't have time to answer and here I am on my own...
Her loss I guess, I just don't like it when she goes clubbing alone with some of her other 'friends' she always end up hurt and taken advantage of and I have to pick her back up...
Funny how she wants to become a psychiatrist... I support her dreams, its not that... but she can't even see her own issues and she has no clue what I'm going through... but I still love her and need her in my life... I know when she 'grows up' and doesn't need to be with a new man every night just to feel appreciated she will be an amazing friend again
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That must be so awful. I can't even imagine what you are going through! I am sending hugs and love your way and hoping all gets sorted out for you soon! 
Take care dear!
